Definition Heartbreak: Overwhelming distress.
Heartache: Emotional anguish or grief; typically caused by the loss or absence of someone loved.
My relationship with Heartache/Heartbreak: If I let it heartache/heartbreak can be constant visitor or tenant that goes from my first relationship to present day. And I do not mean the loss due to death only; this is the people I’ve received or given heartbreak/heartache.
I never had a relationship that did not cause either emotion either from family, friend or lover. Some felt that if they dictated, controlled and decided all things then there wasn’t a need for love, affection or any positives where relationships are concerned. As long as they “provided;”, my silence was expected because women are to be seen not heard. The heartache of never being enough or knowing you’re the after-thought, sometimes not at all. The amount of effort put into trying to receive Love turns your mind, body, and soul inside out. Trying to be anything to get a glimpse of what is thought to be Love become the infected thorn in your side. Heartache is praying they will change even though common sense, reality, and recent examples say otherwise.
Love isn’t conditional, humans are. When we assume outside ourselves, we are trying to force a round block into a square hole. Our minds cannot seem to get that one view is not the only view. The view we have is for our life and it can never sole your wants instead of your needs. Love already knows what we need. Until we accept the lack of control we have in the big scheme of life; there will be heartbreak and heartache.
And we all have to be careful, heartbreak and heartache are addictive qualities we look and anticipate from the past so understand when it gets twisted. Expecting heartache and heartbreak is in my opinion worse than the initial experience. Expecting these things coerce thoughts from reality, it dictates how we react toward others that may not bring us these emotions. Yet the anticipation rolls off our tongues, is shown in our walk, speech, affection or lack there of toward family and friends.
Heartbreak/heartache can put us to sleep while still walking around losing year after year unhappy, full of fear, angry and misinformed.
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