Definition of Criticism: Disapproval expression by printing out faults or shortcomings.
-Serious examination and judgment of something
-Written evaluation of a work of literature.
My relationship with criticism: Is and has never been healthy. My feelings get hurt since my life has been surrounded by men who are unavailable emotionally. They get off by flexing muscles that hurt the receiver on all levels. And people that feel deeply listen to the lies thinking these hidden monsters are being sincere when they are draining you emotionally, physically, spiritually and energetically. This is not a criticism to enhance or for growth. There are levels to criticism and I have seen many from slightest to the worst where any word can be met with being hit or choked out. (Depending on what decade you are speaking of in my life but we will get to that later.)
Criticism is the technique some use to manipulate the situation to be in their favor, always. It begins with mild suggestions and once security is presented the precision has multiple laser focus groups of your entire being. This is how molding begins. Ever wonder how this person is allowed to take advantage, 9 out 10 times criticism started eroding your layers of you.
Criticism is telling you how you should think while still maintaining your defective so you need me to correct you tone.
Criticism is a question with an action of your behaving attached.
Criticism is a form of jealousy disguised many times as friendships and/or relationships that grow into the bully and the bullied. (family or a stranger )
Criticism is knowing they mean you harm but pretend to be in your corner to paint you like the crazy one when the abuse that comes with this at times is hidden. (all forms of abuse emotional to domestic)
Criticism is the lies twisted and spread through homes, families, churches to make the initiator feel whole or alive. And leaves the receiver isolated and pushed into the world without family support.
If they are strong enough to see what God has placed within them, their chosen family will come as they walk through life still loving those that took a tool of learning and turned it into a weapon.
Enough for now.
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